tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3612982127991109906.post3210008828185523120..comments2019-08-28T14:39:01.081-05:00Comments on The Mind of ~Ifer: Not Just Newlyweds~Iferhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14832422728405409763noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3612982127991109906.post-23023702801850811432009-08-25T11:59:59.351-05:002009-08-25T11:59:59.351-05:00People who say those things don't understand. ...People who say those things don't understand. They figure that because their love was shallow and withered away it means yours will too. Its kinda like that saying, "misery loves company." The things you experience together will only make your love stronger, not weaker. My husband and I still always greet each other, say good night and goodbye, and start our days with a kiss and an "I love you." Its about what you do to keep the romance alive and well, and it sounds like you are doing it.Chellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06387359193986785194noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3612982127991109906.post-70346892903276384632009-08-23T22:12:28.093-05:002009-08-23T22:12:28.093-05:00What drives me the most crazy when other people co...What drives me the most crazy when other people comment about my marriage is their just absolute lack of sense. I've lost count the number of people who tell us our infertility will ruin our marriage and that we'll end up getting divorced because Billy Bob and Donna Sue all did. <br />I respond that Husband and I feel that if this is the worst we have to deal with, well then we'll be just fine thankyouverymuch.<br />And as a fellow southerner myself... I just wanna say "oh bless your little heart, aren't you just the most unfortunate looking person i've seen in awhile. see y'all later" (because also when you insult people prefacing it with bless you heart negates it dontchaknow)<br /><br />iclw<br /><br />-alison<br />runamokamok.wordpress.comAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3612982127991109906.post-85964836671017416102009-08-23T17:21:02.887-05:002009-08-23T17:21:02.887-05:00I want to thank each of you for your sweet comment...I want to thank each of you for your sweet comments. It did my heart good to know that there are other couples out there that feel the same way, and that understand what I was trying to say.~Iferhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14832422728405409763noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3612982127991109906.post-22499597697793431612009-08-23T12:17:27.821-05:002009-08-23T12:17:27.821-05:00That's sweet! Sometimes I, we, need a break, b...That's sweet! Sometimes I, we, need a break, but love each other no less. <br /><br />I hope you have 50+ years of sleeping next to each other. I love being in my SO's arms as well. :-)In Due Timehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17114196208633521694noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3612982127991109906.post-59596817967784559912009-08-23T07:36:04.132-05:002009-08-23T07:36:04.132-05:00Y'all can just take a hike and leave this love...Y'all can just take a hike and leave this lovely lady alone!<br /><br />Hope they get the message!<br /><br />ICLW..alhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679149270839974470noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3612982127991109906.post-24236678839014119772009-08-22T23:14:24.107-05:002009-08-22T23:14:24.107-05:00My Beloved and I have only been married for 2 year...My Beloved and I have only been married for 2 years and we still get that 'newlyweds' thing all the time. We are rarely apart for longer than a work day, but the few times that we have had to be apart for a night have been brutal. Our relationship started as a long distance one and we quickly came to cherish each moment we spend together. <br /><br />Cherish each other... and don't let anyone make you feel foolish for being so in love!<br /><br />ICLWMrs. Gamgeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18351339333625358960noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3612982127991109906.post-43985083781077228682009-08-22T22:37:56.043-05:002009-08-22T22:37:56.043-05:00Preach it girl! My hubby and I have been together...Preach it girl! My hubby and I have been together 17 years and have been married nearly 15. While his career has forced us to spend nights apart (emergency services work is like that), we are like y'all in many other ways. I imagine we will still be so lovey dovey in another 20+ years.Kristinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10791317184998122691noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3612982127991109906.post-29887829594861684712009-08-22T03:42:07.764-05:002009-08-22T03:42:07.764-05:00You will always be in love but the type of love wi...You will always be in love but the type of love will vary and change over time, it's a scientific proven fact. The loved up feeling you feel during your first few years together will not last your entire time together, there will be a variant of it but it won't be the same love, chemically it can't be.<br /><br />BikerMan and I have been together for 10 years and married for 9 and our love for each other is the same as you describe yours but I can tell you 100% that it's not the same love we had during our first few years together but that doesn't mean we're any less in love or that our marriage is any different to yours.<br /><br />True love is hard to find, soulmates even harder, you sound like you believe you've found both and that is absolutely fantastic! I know I've found mine but along with that knowledge I realise that over time our love with go through different phases but it will always remain just in different forms.<br /><br />ICLWan insight into mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08365625596614780273noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3612982127991109906.post-18555975725017861162009-08-21T13:52:50.595-05:002009-08-21T13:52:50.595-05:00funny thing is, i can see God there holding us in ...funny thing is, i can see God there holding us in His arms, walking with us side by side and telling us through His Word how much He loves us. why doesn't anyone tell Him its just like being a newlywed. Because it isn't. Love grows. I have been married 19 1/2 years. My wife is more attractive, more loving and more of a necessity then she ever was back then. I dont want to be like a newlywed. the growing pains, the adjustments to family, and yes the kids. All the pains and ills we have gone through puts us right where Mike and Jenn are. Content to live the rest of our lives together. Good observations Jenn. But remember, kids bind us closer, if they dont, dont blame the kids, the problem was always there before.timnoreply@blogger.com